Moving Forward, Caring Less
Thursday, April 27th, 2006Forgetting people who were there for you when you were in your darkest hours can truly be painful in ways, but then again, wishing them all the happiness and content with where they are now is all that matters. No questions I have had a few, and well, painful as it may seem, no place to go but to move on look towards other people who may value you for who you really are and not for who you are at that moment only.
Sure people would think crying over spilled milk, is something, but the true essence of valuing people who are there for you really needs to be understood. Well, the damage has been done, and maybe they have found their happiness. What to do? Well just move on, turn your back, even if it is hard to do and try not to show any signs of resentment. Besides, there are far more valuable friends available in the world, and one less friend won’t hurt. Perhaps this is the reason why the people around me have been whittled down to the ones who are really sincere and actually are friends.
There is no question that as much as possible I try to avoid some people I used to be close to. My reason? Well, the fact that they can entertain the thought of avoiding you, then why bother to show up? Move on and spend time on something that will not offer resentment has become my motto, and well, I am not sorry for it. Besides, what is there to go back for when they are already happy?
No finger pointing, nor elaborating on the matter. I simply woke up and found that true friends are really the ones who are there for you at any time, any place. I can only count one or two friends and the others, well, I haven’t the slightest idea on what to call them, and maybe I will just keep it to myself. Who am I to pass judgment on people who are not hitched and do not understand the situation I am in?
No thing to smile about, nothing to laugh about, but maybe something to think about. Life goes on and so must we. For my friends who still cherish my company, my thoughts and personality, I will still be around. But for the others whom I have chosen to avoid, it’s pretty obvious when I am not around that I will no longer be around. All I can say is good luck and good tidings to you and your endeavors and may you be happy from hereon because I will no longer be around to see and share your happiness. Weird article? Know me to understand why then tell me it is weird. Who knows, this may be pertaining to you? Right?
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