Archive for August, 2005

Love and Career Don’t Mix

Wednesday, August 31st, 2005

Funny how someone can be successful in one thing and fail in another. Successful in the sense that you can accomplish anything if you put your heart and mind into it. Failure in another thing if you lay out all your cards, just wanting to enjoy life, but unfortunately other plans are in store for you.

It is true that money and love don’t mix. Surely there will be one that will suffer. Give it your all, open up, become enslaved without regrets and you get in return is misjudgment is a harsh thing to accept and a bitter pill to swallow at that. No one to blame but yourself since maybe somewhere along the way you do not know what happened at all.

Being too nice sometimes has its ups and downs in life. I now a person who was seen to be so nice that people would just simply take him for granted. All this guy ever wanted was to live a normal life just like any other person who would want extreme happiness.

All that is over now. Maybe such an experience would tell him to change. For better or for worse? No one would know. All that is important is that he is himself, accepted or not, but people like him need to be heard out, not pre judged. He is sometimes called weird, but being weird means not being understood as well. If such a person were weird, he would not succeed in life, nor would he be loved by the people who know him best.

So I end this with saying, before you judge people, make sure you know them well enough to say hard words like being inconsiderate and weird. They have feelings too. All they want is to share happiness and provide company, not to disrupt anything and make lives a living hell…..